Do you feel like you are wasting your time and efforts in your current relationship because your love affair is on a one way street? And are you wondering in the back of your mind if your significant other is a player? Although it can be quite difficult to read a man in the beginning, a good rule of thumb is to follow your instincts. If your inclination leads you to believe that a guy isn’t completely truthful, pay attention. Here are a few tips to tell if your man is a player and if he’s cheating on you.

Here are three definite signs to tell if you have a good man or a player / cheater:

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We can never control the actions of our men. We can never be with them 100 percent of the day and yes there must be elements of trust in every relationship. However, that does not mean that we must be so trusting that we are foolish. Some men are weak. So weak that they sometimes needs assistance in preventing themselves from getting in trouble. This is why there are certain women that you, as his wife/girlfriend/ fiancé, should keep him as far away from as possible. There are certain circumstances where you may have no choice but to allow him near her due to the fact that they may work together, or dated once. However, my advice to you is that if you cannot find a way, then you make a way. Having said that, the following are a short list of chicks to keep your man away from.

1. The Low Self Esteem Chick

The girl with self esteem so low that she will do almost anything for attention from a male. She needs men to tell her how beautiful and wonderful she is constantly. Her antics sometimes appear to be over the top because in essence they are a cry for attention from anyone with a penis.

2. The Sluttish Friend

She is the one chick in your crew of friends who is a sweet heart and would give you her whole paycheck and food stamps if you needed it BUT (there always is a but with people who are too nice) she is a whore. She will sleep with anyone and I do mean anyone. Her only goal is to get hers. She is the chick that will side line hate on you when you guys are at the club and she notices that guys are giving you more attention than her.   Read the rest of this entry »

Clever Women Get Their Ex Back by Outsmarting Them. If you really want him back you have to be very smart and very sharp. Here’s how.

First he needs to miss you so if you have been hanging around or calling; stop now. This applies to the calls, texts and emails he sends to you too. Do not reply. Not even if they turn romantic or pleading. Usually men cannot believe you do not miss them so if he has been definitely unromantic lately he will probably contact you just to remind you that you want him. If you absolutely must reply, keep it very brief and impersonal. Do not be rude. Do not be vindictive. Be friendly for sure, this will relax him, but also be very firm.

If he requests a meeting, say no, even if you feel it will kill you. Tell him you need to be somewhere at the day and time he specifies. If he tries to get more detail, stay firm. With a smile in your voice, tell him it is private. He needs to know you have not put your life on hold and are not hanging around pining for him. This will intrigue him.   Read the rest of this entry »

Is there any one skill that all guys should have when it comes to meeting women? Yes there is! Its called “approaching women”. Now, there’s a ton of guys out there teaching it, and they all say what I just said. But I’m going to say something much radically different. I think “approaching women” should just be a part of your overall social skills. Approaching is only a hard-skill if you think its the most important thing in the world. All these “gurus” out there teaching you how important approaching is, are just screwing you up. The more you think its what defines you as a man, the more you’ll fear it. The more seriously you’ll take it, almost as if a life or death situation.

What you want to do is focus on being the cool, social, friendly guy. See, if your only goal is to be super chatty and friendly with everyone, it’ll be a lot more easier and relaxed goal. I know it sounds weird, but… If you actually go out there and talk to everyone, then you don’t even notice the women. I mean, they’re just another person you’re talking to. Its the 6th person you’ve approached today, because that’s just who you are. This particular one happens to be a hot woman, big deal. In fact, this is also the most attractive way to approach women! If you’ve ever seen all those mega-complex and contrived “approaching methods”, by gurus online… Here’s the truth about them. They’re all just fancy ways of circumventing her natural response to “hunters”. This is a guy who’s on the prowl, going out there, trolling for random women to hit on. She resents this kind of a guy. Her body immediately shuts down in response to such a guy. Well, some guys instead of dealing with the underlying problem (being a needy hunter), invented ways of circumventing her anti-hunter defenses.   Read the rest of this entry »