Do you feel like you are wasting your time and efforts in your current relationship because your love affair is on a one way street? And are you wondering in the back of your mind if your significant other is a player? Although it can be quite difficult to read a man in the beginning, a good rule of thumb is to follow your instincts. If your inclination leads you to believe that a guy isn’t completely truthful, pay attention. Here are a few tips to tell if your man is a player and if he’s cheating on you.

Here are three definite signs to tell if you have a good man or a player / cheater:

1.) Can you easily contact him?
2.) Do his words coincide with his actions?
3.) Does he keep his word?

Now let’s get into what each of these ideas can tell you about a guy. In this day of cell phones and instant communication, it is not very difficult to reach anyone. Are your phone calls to him answered promptly or not at all? A player will be screening calls, probably from other women. You will find that close to 100 % of your phone conversations will be the result of him returning your phone call. Take note also if he receives quite a few calls or texts while you are together, especially if he doesn’t answer. There’s a very good chance that these are from other women and he certainly cannot let you be aware.

It’s a good idea once again to listen to your instincts when paying attention to what he says. Studies have shown that people have certain little “tells” that give away when someone is lying, such as bringing your hand to your face, scratching your nose, placing your hands in your pockets, etc. All denote a sort of discomfort that aligns with someone who is not telling the truth. If you see these quirks when he professes his undying devotion to you, take heed. His words are not expressing his true feelings. Also, be aware of his follow-through if he continues to give you these wonderful, loving promises of never-ending love; yet, he seems to become increasingly unavailable. In this case, there’s a very good possibility he is a player.

So, let’s look on the bright side. How can you interpret these signs to recognize a good and faithful man? He will be the guy who tells you those loving thoughts and it seems to come directly from the heart. He will answer the overwhelming majority of your phone calls and sound excited to hear your voice. And, you can trust in whatever he says. No matter what he promises you, he always seems to deliver on his word. This is the man you want because chances are he is not a player.

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