We can never control the actions of our men. We can never be with them 100 percent of the day and yes there must be elements of trust in every relationship. However, that does not mean that we must be so trusting that we are foolish. Some men are weak. So weak that they sometimes needs assistance in preventing themselves from getting in trouble. This is why there are certain women that you, as his wife/girlfriend/ fiancé, should keep him as far away from as possible. There are certain circumstances where you may have no choice but to allow him near her due to the fact that they may work together, or dated once. However, my advice to you is that if you cannot find a way, then you make a way. Having said that, the following are a short list of chicks to keep your man away from.

1. The Low Self Esteem Chick

The girl with self esteem so low that she will do almost anything for attention from a male. She needs men to tell her how beautiful and wonderful she is constantly. Her antics sometimes appear to be over the top because in essence they are a cry for attention from anyone with a penis.

2. The Sluttish Friend

She is the one chick in your crew of friends who is a sweet heart and would give you her whole paycheck and food stamps if you needed it BUT (there always is a but with people who are too nice) she is a whore. She will sleep with anyone and I do mean anyone. Her only goal is to get hers. She is the chick that will side line hate on you when you guys are at the club and she notices that guys are giving you more attention than her.  

3. The Model Chick

I have some leniency with this chick because truth be told, she cannot help that she is gorgeous. The only problem with her is that she is every man’s dream girl and secretly every man fantasizes of boning a model chick. This has nothing to do with her necessarily being prettier than you but more so to do with egoism. It feels good to a man for him to utter the words “I nailed a model”.

4. The Needy/Annoying Ex-Girlfriend

This is your current boo’s ex lady friend. She is the one he had a “special bond” with. So much so that they still keep in contact and remain friends. Which would not be a problem if she did not still depend on him emotionally for comfort. She is the one who will call him crying after she gets laid off from her job or realizes she is in love with a loser who treats her like crap. Yet, she still sees your man as her place of solace and peace. Secretly she is waiting on him to dump you so she can pounce on him. Which is why she needs to get the boot. Or at least have some restrictions put on this chick. For instance, no she cannot call him after a certain time of night. It does not matter how horrible her date was. She better suck it up till the morning.

5. The Golddigger

This wallet muncher is the one who can smell a man with an IRA account from 10 miles away. She may be someone your man works with but has a lower level position. She is not there to pursue her own career achievements and success. She has an agenda of the romantic nature. She is there to find a husband. She does not care about this man at all. She cares about his wallet and all roads leading to it. I guarantee you that she would not stay with him longer than the time required to receive the biggest divorce settlement. She is in it to win it and her financial security is the prize.

6. The Sex Kitten

She is similar to the sluttish friend and the low self esteem chick but different in the way that she is much more self aware. Her actions do not come from a place of inferiority, self consciousness, or pure nymphomania. She realizes that she has nothing to offer a man but her body. She has little to no personality, she isn’t the brightest bulb in the room. She might have been told these things all her life which is why now she focuses all her energies into increasing/maintaining her looks. She has nothing else to offer. She also knows all men’s weakness. Sex. So, she purposely and boldly, uses sex to seduce men. She is the one who might be working anywhere! Anywhere!

Article Source: http://yeahshesaidit.com/2010/06/06/6-women-to-keep-away-from-your-man/

Clever Women Get Their Ex Back by Outsmarting Them. If you really want him back you have to be very smart and very sharp. Here’s how.

First he needs to miss you so if you have been hanging around or calling; stop now. This applies to the calls, texts and emails he sends to you too. Do not reply. Not even if they turn romantic or pleading. Usually men cannot believe you do not miss them so if he has been definitely unromantic lately he will probably contact you just to remind you that you want him. If you absolutely must reply, keep it very brief and impersonal. Do not be rude. Do not be vindictive. Be friendly for sure, this will relax him, but also be very firm.

If he requests a meeting, say no, even if you feel it will kill you. Tell him you need to be somewhere at the day and time he specifies. If he tries to get more detail, stay firm. With a smile in your voice, tell him it is private. He needs to know you have not put your life on hold and are not hanging around pining for him. This will intrigue him.  

Do not panic about not showing him enough interest. Some men really feel the fun is over when you are prepared to give up other people for him. That would mean you expect the same from them and a lot of guys start running. They are not ready to handle the thought that they are now stuck with only one woman.

Your job now is not to let him feel he cannot have other women. Your job is to let him feel that he cannot have you. Or even worse, to him anyway, you are now available to other men. The meaning of this is you are not as interested in him as he originally believed, this will drive him crazy.

If he starts putting the pressure on such as issuing ultimatums like, you either see me now or it is over; stay cool. If you cave on this you will only get more of the previous bad behavior. Do not threaten, do not even raise your voice. In your, by now well practiced, friendly but firm voice make it clear that as much as you may like to see him at the time he wishes it is not possible for you because of a previous private or work commitment. Then let him know you are available at another time in a day or so. He will accept it. Stay smart and when you do meet him eventually, secure that next meeting. You will be on the path to reunion.

If you know how your man thinks you will be able to steer him in any direction you want.

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Dating Guide For Single Men – 3 Places to Meet Beautiful Women

By Chris Tyler

One of the hardest things to figure out as a single guy that wants to attract beautiful women is where to meet them. If you want to get more successful dating and attracting beautiful women, then you have to know where to meet them.

Here are 3 places to meet beautiful women that you should definitely know about:

1. Bookstores and coffee shops. These are great places because even the classy chicks that are not into the whole club scene are going to end up going here once in a while. And there are tons of things that you can use to start a conversation with a woman in these situations.

2. Fitness Clubs. Now, I know there are a lot of men that try to pick up women in these kinds of places, but mostly, they go about it all wrong. They treat it like it is a nightclub and it’s really a completely different environment, and it needs a much different approach.

3. Online Social Sites. Different from dating sites, the social sites can work much better, as long as you don’t immediately try to leave risque comments to her or anything like that. You can get a real conversation going and build a bond with her this way. And this can make attracting her that much easier.

Got any suggestions? Add your place to meet beautiful women or great looking guys right here!

What you want to do is focus on being the cool, social, friendly guy. See, if your only goal is to be super chatty and friendly with everyone, it’ll be a lot more easier and relaxed goal. I know it sounds weird, but… If you actually go out there and talk to everyone, then you don’t even notice the women. I mean, they’re just another person you’re talking to. Its the 6th person you’ve approached today, because that’s just who you are. This particular one happens to be a hot woman, big deal. In fact, this is also the most attractive way to approach women! If you’ve ever seen all those mega-complex and contrived “approaching methods”, by gurus online… Here’s the truth about them. They’re all just fancy ways of circumventing her natural response to “hunters”. This is a guy who’s on the prowl, going out there, trolling for random women to hit on. She resents this kind of a guy. Her body immediately shuts down in response to such a guy. Well, some guys instead of dealing with the underlying problem (being a needy hunter), invented ways of circumventing her anti-hunter defenses.  

Well, here’s the good news. If you’re just a friendly, social guy, and that’s just who you are, you never trigger them in the first place!! She can tell if you’re just approaching her because you approach everyone, or because you’re on the prowl. And guess what, the most attractive thing a guy can be is the cool, social, charismatic guy.

You can spend years learning all kinds of tricks to trick women into accepting your approach. Or, you can take the easier, more effective way of BEING the kind of guy whom they naturally love being approached by. It’s simple. Just  get some books on starting a conversation and small-talk. Just make it your goal to start conversations with a few random strangers each time you leave the house. At first you can start with the easier, more natural situations, and later ramp it up to where you chat with everyone.

If you wanna read even more, go to youapproachwomen.com or Guy Gets Girl.

Here are some tips for single women on where to meet a guy and make him want you:

1. Online dating sites can be a good choice, just as long as you realize that there are going to be some sketchy characters.

You don’t want to put anything on there that is too reveling about yourself, because you never know what guys are creeping around your profile. With that being said, you can meet guys that have similar interests as you do, and you will be able to tell which once are serious about meeting a woman like you by their own profile.

2. Health and fitness clubs can also be a good choice, especially if you are the kind of woman that likes to stay active.

Meeting a guy here, you can be sure that you are not going to attract a couch potato that just wants to lie around the house all day. You want to make sure though, that you are not meeting guys that go to a health club just to meet women. These kinds of guys are not really that into fitness, as much as they are into checking women out.

3. Wherever you meet a guy, you want to flirt with him in a way that makes him want more of you.

Being able to kind of get a guy hooked on you is all about making him want MORE. When you pique his interest and then leave him hanging at just the right time, you can be positive that he is going to want to see you again.

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