Women: Here’s How To Get Your Man Back
By Chillio. Filed in Advice, Tips |
Clever Women Get Their Ex Back by Outsmarting Them. If you really want him back you have to be very smart and very sharp. Here’s how.
First he needs to miss you so if you have been hanging around or calling; stop now. This applies to the calls, texts and emails he sends to you too. Do not reply. Not even if they turn romantic or pleading. Usually men cannot believe you do not miss them so if he has been definitely unromantic lately he will probably contact you just to remind you that you want him. If you absolutely must reply, keep it very brief and impersonal. Do not be rude. Do not be vindictive. Be friendly for sure, this will relax him, but also be very firm.
If he requests a meeting, say no, even if you feel it will kill you. Tell him you need to be somewhere at the day and time he specifies. If he tries to get more detail, stay firm. With a smile in your voice, tell him it is private. He needs to know you have not put your life on hold and are not hanging around pining for him. This will intrigue him.
Do not panic about not showing him enough interest. Some men really feel the fun is over when you are prepared to give up other people for him. That would mean you expect the same from them and a lot of guys start running. They are not ready to handle the thought that they are now stuck with only one woman.
Your job now is not to let him feel he cannot have other women. Your job is to let him feel that he cannot have you. Or even worse, to him anyway, you are now available to other men. The meaning of this is you are not as interested in him as he originally believed, this will drive him crazy.
If he starts putting the pressure on such as issuing ultimatums like, you either see me now or it is over; stay cool. If you cave on this you will only get more of the previous bad behavior. Do not threaten, do not even raise your voice. In your, by now well practiced, friendly but firm voice make it clear that as much as you may like to see him at the time he wishes it is not possible for you because of a previous private or work commitment. Then let him know you are available at another time in a day or so. He will accept it. Stay smart and when you do meet him eventually, secure that next meeting. You will be on the path to reunion.
If you know how your man thinks you will be able to steer him in any direction you want.
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